Weddings are full of unforgettable moments, but one of the most touching is often the 'first look' between a bride and her dad. While many brides focus on the first look with their soon-to-be spouse, taking the time to capture this special moment with your father can create memories you’ll treasure forever. Here’s why you should consider it for your wedding day:
1. It Honors His Role in Your Life
Your wedding day marks a huge life transition, but before you walk down the aisle, take a moment to honor the man who’s been there through it all. From teaching you how to ride a bike to cheering you on in every milestone, a first look with your dad celebrates your special bond before you embark on this new chapter.
2. A Private Emotional Moment
The wedding day can be a whirlwind of activity. A first look with your dad allows you to have a quiet, emotional moment together before all the festivities begin. It’s a chance to connect one-on-one, without an audience, and soak in the importance of the day.
3. It’s a Beautiful Photo Opportunity
There’s something so touching about the look on a father’s face when he sees his daughter as a bride. Capturing this raw, emotional moment makes for some of the most heartfelt photos of the entire day. These are images you’ll treasure forever.
4. Helps Calm Pre-Wedding Nerves
Weddings come with a lot of emotions—excitement, nerves, maybe even a little stress. Seeing your dad before the ceremony can help you relax, provide reassurance, and bring a sense of calm as you prepare to walk down the aisle.
5. You Get to See His Reaction
Your dad has likely been imagining this day for years. The look on his face when he sees you in your dress, hair perfectly styled, makeup glowing, is priceless. You’ll never forget the pride, joy, and love shining through in that moment.
6. It Highlights Family Connection
A wedding is a celebration of two families coming together, but the bride’s family, especially her dad, plays a significant role. This first look acknowledges the importance of family on this monumental day and gives your dad his own special moment.
7. A Moment to Say 'Thank You'
Your dad has likely been one of your biggest supporters, so this first look gives you the chance to express your gratitude. Whether through words or simply the exchange of a heartfelt hug, it’s a quiet moment to acknowledge all he’s done for you.
8. A Chance for Reflection
The first look allows for reflection on the journey that has led you both to this day. Sharing a moment of nostalgia and appreciation before the ceremony brings perspective and creates a meaningful transition into the wedding.
9. It Adds to the Timeline without Interrupting It
Including a first look with your dad doesn’t take away from the flow of your day. In fact, it can help things run more smoothly. After this moment, you’ll be better prepared, more relaxed, and ready for what’s next: your first look with your groom or walking down the aisle.
10. It Makes Memories Beyond the Big Day
The wedding day passes in the blink of an eye, but the memories from it last a lifetime. A first look with your dad isn’t just about getting great photos—it’s about creating a memory you’ll cherish long after the cake is cut and the guests have gone home.
A first look with your dad can be a meaningful addition to your wedding day, providing a moment of reflection, gratitude, and emotional connection. It’s a way to honor the role he’s played in your life and create a memory you’ll both treasure forever. If you’re on the fence about including this special moment in your day, trust me—you won’t regret it!
A Note for Brides Who Have Lost Their Fathers:
To the brides who have lost their fathers, I offer my most sincere apologies for your loss. This day can be bittersweet, and it’s important to honor your emotions. Consider creating a special first look moment with your mother, grandparent, or your groom instead. These relationships are equally valuable and can bring a different but no less meaningful experience to your wedding day.
Cathy Kowalke is an internationally published photographer based in Garrett, Indiana, with a deep passion for both family and wedding photography. Known for her ability to capture the magic of weddings and the unique stories of families, Cathy travels across the United States to create timeless memories for her clients.
As a devoted mother of four and wife, she brings warmth and authenticity to her photography, ensuring each session feels personal and special. In addition to her work with families and weddings, Cathy is a proud NIMLDTS (Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep) photographer, specializing in documenting babies born incompatible with life. Through her lens, Cathy creates lasting memories that families can cherish forever.
